Connect Better At Work

dennyzhang

URL: https://quantcodedenny.com/posts/connect-better/

Introduction

Doing great work is only part of success. My influence grows when others know, trust, and rely on me.

Connecting better at work is most powerful when it becomes a small daily habit — one or two simple actions that naturally build trust, relationships, and impact.

Core Daily Habit

Each day, I focus on one key action:

  • Notice & Add Value – Do at least one of these per day:

    • Ask a thoughtful question to understand someone’s priorities or challenges.
    • Share a useful resource, tip, introduction, or recognition.

  • Follow Through – Complete or update one commitment each day.

    • If I can’t complete it, I proactively communicate the update.

Daily Routine (2–3 min each)**

  • Morning: Pick one person to check in with or help today.
  • During Day: Apply one core daily habit naturally.
  • End of Day: Log one insight or follow-up for tomorrow; optionally send a quick thank-you or recognition.

Weekly Reflection (5 min)**

  • Who did I meaningfully connect with this week?
  • What one helpful action did I take for each person?
  • Plan one simple connection action for next week.

Quick Tips**

  • Small, consistent actions beat rare grand gestures.
  • Focus on helping others achieve their goals, not just visibility.
  • Keep notes in one place for easy follow-up.

Common Pitfalls**

  • Focusing only on networking for personal gain feels transactional.
  • Skipping follow-ups reduces trust.
  • Ignoring listening or empathy weakens connections.

Conclusion

Connecting better at work is both a skill and a habit. I make it automatic with one simple action per day: notice, add value, or follow through.

At the end of each week, I reflect briefly: Who did I understand better, help, or stay connected with, and what simple action will strengthen the connection next week?